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  • Sexualization of females in media & impact on our girls

    So is it the parents responsibility to "prevent" their impressionable girls from being exposed to this, or should we a as a society be more responsible :huh: both seem impossible to me...what are your thoughts? Is a there a resonable solution to obviously a serious problem?

    Sexed-up images in media hurt young girls: study AFP

    Inescapable media images of sexed-up girls and women posing as adolescents can cause psychological and even physical harm to adolescents and young women, a study in the US has warned.

    The pressure of what experts call "sexualization" can lead to depression, eating disorders, and poor academic performance, said the report, released Sunday by the American Psychological Association.

    "Sexualization of girls is a broad and increasing problem and is harmful to girls," it concluded.

    Adult women dressed as school girls in music videos, bikini-clad dolls in hot tubs, and sexually-charged advertisements featuring teenagers were among the many examples cited.

    Such omnipresent images -- on television and the Internet, in movies and magazines -- can also have a negative effect on a young girl's sexual development, the study cautioned.

    Based on a comprehensive review of academic literature, the 66-page report noted that young adolescents and girls were particularly at risk "because their sense of self is still being formed."

    School performance can also suffer. In one experiment cited, college-aged women were asked to try on and evaluate either a swim suit or a sweater. While they waited for 10 minutes while wearing the garment, they completed a math test.

    "The results revealed that young women in swimsuits performed significantly worse ... than those wearing sweaters. No difference were found for young men."

    The study, which includes numerous recommendations for concerned parents, coincides with a growing wave of public concern about the impact of highly sexed imagery.

    The fashion world has been in turmoil since public authorities in Madrid banned under-weight and under-age models from catwalks last year.

    The Italian government and two top fashion associations followed suit, signing a code of ethics in December after top Brazilian model Ana Carolina Reston died of heart failure weighing only 40 kilos (88 pounds).

    In France, Health Minister Xavier Bertrand, concerned about the rise of eating disorders such as anorexia and bulimia, recently asked a panel of experts to create a similar voluntary code for advertisers and clothing designers on how the female body should be portrayed.

    Sunday's study said sexualization occurs when "a person's value comes only from his or her sexual appeal or behavior," when sexuality is inappropriately imposed, or when a person is sexually "objectified."

    Looking at popular music videos, the authors quoted songs by the Pussycat Dolls, Kid Rock, and 50 Cent, emphasizing lyrics that they suggested sexually objectified women.

    The report said that "sexualization of women is particularly prominent in advertising," and singled out beer commercials as a major offender.

    Also cited was a Skechers shoe ad that features pop singer Christina Aguilera dressed as a school girl in pigtails, with her shirt unbuttoned while licking a lollipop.

    The popular Bratz dolls, the study noted, depict "girls marketed in bikinis, sitting in a hot tub, mixing drinks, and standing around, while the 'Boyz' play guitar and stand with their surf boards," it said. The dolls come dressed in miniskirts, fishnet stockings, and feather boas.

    The report called on parents to take a more active roll in helping to shape the sexual self-image of their children, and to exert consumer pressure on manufacturers and advertisers.

    In the United States, the sexualization of young girls became an issue of public debate after the 1999 murder of JonBenet Ramsey, a six-year old beauty pageant contestant who put on makeup and adult clothes.

  • #2
    Yes, to be the most hated mom until DD is living on her own.

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    • #3
      Dress sizes are a huge part of the problem. How is it I can be 3 differant sizes depending on where I shop?

      http://www.boston.com/news/nation/artic ... the_new_8/

      My daughter growing up will be clothed appropriately, and will probably have me for quite a while. I want my little girl to have the right to be a little girl and grow up when it's time, not 5 years before puberty.

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      • #4
        One of the many reasons we homeschool....

        This is a frequent topic of discussion in our house what with four daughters. My husband is more appalled by the sexualization than I am - probably because as a man he understands exactly to whom this portrayal is catering (and, that it doesn't elevate women but, rather, debases and devalues them).

        I think that, as a parent, I have the responsibility to do two things: 1)train my daughters to NOT think or behave in this manner, to view themselves as above such sexual exploitation, to have the tools to deal with it as adults and 2)to shelter them from this damaging portion of our culture until they are more mature and capable of handling this issue without having it harm their own personalities.

        In other words - give them the tools to deal with it and keep them away from the danger until they are fully armed and prepared to deal with it effectively.
        Who uses a machete to cut through red tape
        With fingernails that shine like justice
        And a voice that is dark like tinted glass

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        • #5
          I think we as a society should definitely be more responsible but I don't see that happening in my lifetime. So, like Julie, I'll be vying for the Most Hated Mom of the Year award. It is definitely the parents' responsibility to keep their children from being exposed to this (as much as possible). I can't prevent them from seeing the Bratz display while we shop at Wal-Mart but I will personally never, ever purchase one for her (and other similar toys that feed this problem).

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Color_Me_Sulky
            Dress sizes are a huge part of the problem. How is it I can be 3 differant sizes depending on where I shop?

            http://www.boston.com/news/nation/artic ... the_new_8/

            My daughter growing up will be clothed appropriately, and will probably hate me for quite a while. I want my little girl to hate the right to be a little girl and grow up when it's time, not 5 years before puberty.
            We're starting when they are young so it is just a way of life for them. We don't put our babies in string bikinis (seriously - one year recently Old Navy had string bikinis in infant sizes - why not just let them run around naked SOOOO much more normal and UNsexual to see a baby in just a diaper than a baby in an outfit suitable for the SI Swimsuit issue ). In fact, we don't allow our daughters to wear two piece swimsuits at all (which is fine because in their swimming classes they have to wear a one piece anyway).

            I only buy tops and dresses that have sleeves for my daughters. I don't buy things that expose their midriff. And, their father FREAKS out if I get them shorts or skirts that are too short. He prefers they wear skorts to be honest (I guess it's double the coverage for him ). Skorts are cuter than shorts riding up the butt anyway....

            So, we are very proactive on this not just by teaching our daughters to respect themselves - but also by teaching them how to dress so that they can avoid this hyper-sexualization.

            Every year it becomes harder, though, as they grow older and need bigger clothing sizes AND as our culture DOES get more permissive in the sexualization of women, young girls - even babies. I have found a handful of chidren's clothing stores that I can *usually* count on to have modest, cute girls' clothing. They are more expensive, though.... :huh:

            EDIT: I agree with the Fair Queen - it will be a cold day in Hell before I even consider purchasing a Bratz doll for my girls.
            Who uses a machete to cut through red tape
            With fingernails that shine like justice
            And a voice that is dark like tinted glass

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            • #7
              You know...Bratz dolls aren't the problem. My daughter owns about 12 and I have zero problem with them. She plays very nicely with them. Our 8 year old boy has 2 boy dolls and they play family/house/school. For all of the negative hype, the really are NOT the problem. The problem is the likes of Lyndsay Lohan, Britney Spears and all of the butt-crack showing,size 0 divas out there that market their particular brand of shit to our girls. I like actually that the bratz don't look like sex toys (aka Barbie).

              Hey...did you guys know that Hillary Duff has a "Little but Luscious" line at Wal-Mart that sells black, lacy shirts and butt-crack low riders to our tweens?

              How DO you keep your kids from being influenced? They can't watch toon disney anymore, there is no good family programming.

              Blame the Bratz...but really....they aren't the problem.

              kris
              ~Mom of 5, married to an ID doc
              ~A Rolling Stone Gathers No Moss

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              • #8
                I think the television programs, movies, magazines, clothing lines, and, yes, toys are all to blame for this problem. These are all cultural "details" that form and shape our cultural identity.

                Personally, I think playing with unrealistically shaped Barbies growing up helped my sister form a personality conducive to her eating disorder. And, I recognize in myself a borderline eating disorder mentality and I think that media images AND toys (such as Barbie) helped this along.

                What ever happened to Rainbow Brite and Strawberry Shortcake for goodness sake?

                (Oh, I'd also bet $$$ that Barbies being played with as children by today's adult women have helped along the rise in breast augmentation).
                Who uses a machete to cut through red tape
                With fingernails that shine like justice
                And a voice that is dark like tinted glass

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Tabula Rasa

                  In other words - give them the tools to deal with it and keep them away from the danger until they are fully armed and prepared to deal with it effectively.



                  I'm not sure how old everyone's daughters are, but girls are 11 and 7, right smack dab in the middle of all this. I've always been of the mindset that kids should be allowed to be kids for as long as possible. They grow up too quickly as it is. And that goes for clothing chioces, explosure to the media/music, and toys, too.

                  I think a big part of it is teaching our kids, (girls AND boys), how to deal with people in our society who may not have the same standards, ethics, morals, or beliefs that we do; and to make sure our kids know that it's all right to be different if you don't agree with others. To have the wherewithall to "go against the grain" if they're not comfortable with where that grain is heading.

                  I'm not so worried about toys like Bratz dolls. I'm more worried about parents who give them to their kids when those kids either aren't ready for them or are allowed to emulate them without a parental discussion about age-appropriate dress or behavior.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by PrincessFiona

                    How DO you keep your kids from being influenced? They can't watch toon disney anymore, there is no good family programming.
                    We've gotten to the point where we only let our three stooges watch PBS Kids programming or Qubo shows. (Qubo has Veggie Tales and Larry Boy, among others.

                    But, yeah. I agree. It's in a so many aspects of our culture. Heck, even if you were able to keep your kids away from all media, music, toys, movies, etc, they'd still run into it at school when they encounter kids with parents who don't see this as an issue.

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                    • #11
                      Kris, it just occurred to me:

                      Please don't think my dislike of Bratz dolls is a condemnation of your mothering skills!

                      I have serious issues with Barbies. Guess what? My mom bought every one of the dozens we owned! And, she is a very, very good mother.

                      It's a criticism of the dolls' maker - not of the mom!!!!
                      Who uses a machete to cut through red tape
                      With fingernails that shine like justice
                      And a voice that is dark like tinted glass

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by diggitydot
                        Originally posted by PrincessFiona

                        How DO you keep your kids from being influenced? They can't watch toon disney anymore, there is no good family programming.
                        We've gotten to the point where we only let our three stooges watch PBS Kids programming or Qubo shows. (Qubo has Veggie Tales and Larry Boy, among others.
                        Qubo is nice - it's the only Saturday morning cartoons we can turn on for the kids and go back to bed (trusting that something disturbing won't pop up).

                        But, yeah. I agree. It's in a so many aspects of our culture. Heck, even if you were able to keep your kids away from all media, music, toys, movies, etc, they'd still run into it at school when they encounter kids with parents who don't see this as an issue.
                        That's what I meant when I said it's one of the reasons we homeschool. I sure as heck cannot control my children's school environment if they are in public school! Which means that it doesn't matter what I help them avoid until they are mature enough to handle - they'll still encounter it before they're ready in public school. :bummer:

                        (BTW My daughters' ages: 8, 8, 5, and 20 months - son is 10 and boys ARE affected by this as well).
                        Who uses a machete to cut through red tape
                        With fingernails that shine like justice
                        And a voice that is dark like tinted glass

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                        • #13
                          I think it really is a symptom of our times, of our me first, personal expression, free speech as weapon, me first, me first, me first.

                          I have said that there are no moral absolutes, but it should be easy to see where not having a 'society wide' basis for making up our own leads us.

                          Every empire it seems slides in to debauchery...why would we be any different?

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Tabula Rasa
                            Personally, I think playing with unrealistically shaped Barbies growing up helped my sister form a personality conducive to her eating disorder. And, I recognize in myself a borderline eating disorder mentality and I think that media images AND toys (such as Barbie) helped this along.
                            Barbies causing eating disorders - are you kidding me? Toys ALONE do not cause anything. Both of my sisters and I had more Barbies then you could count, none of us had eating disorders. When are parents (not all, some)these days going to step up and take responsibility for their childrens' actions? Kids need molding. Yes, they get some of that from the media but the biggest problem (in my humble, no kids opinion) is that too many parents are more concerned about being their kids' best friend then being a PARENT!

                            Yes, toys, media, movies, etc. they are put ideas in your kids heads but as a parent it is your responsibility to know what is going on in your child's life and ensure that you're molding them as well. Parents who let their kids have everything and have no concerns over the toys, tvs, etc. are the problem.
                            Wife to NSG out of training, mom to 2, 10 & 8, and a beagle with wings.

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                            • #15
                              She's skinny, but she's a piece of plastic for goodness' sake!

                              I had a zillion Barbies growing up and I don't have an eating disorder. Nor have I ever tried to wear this to the mall!!!



                              ........running back to childless corner again...........

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