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    Maine middle school to offer birth control
    School board approves pills and patches for students ages 11 to 13
    The Associated Press
    Updated: 7:43 a.m. CT Oct 18, 2007
    PORTLAND, Maine - Pupils at a city middle school will be able to get birth control pills and patches at their student health center after the local school board approved the proposal Wednesday evening.

    The plan, offered by city health officials, makes King Middle School the first middle school in Maine to make a full range of contraception available to students in grades 6 through 8, according to the state Department of Health and Human Services.

    There are no national figures on how many middle schools, where most students range in age from 11 to 13, provide such services.

    “It’s very rare that middle schools do this,” said Divya Mohan, a spokeswoman for the National Assembly on School-Based Health Care.

    The Portland School Committee voted 7-2 for the measure.

    Chairman John Coyne voted against it, saying he felt providing the birth control was a parental responsibility. The other no vote came from Ben Meiklejohn, who said the consent form does not clearly define the services being offered.

    Opponents cited religious and health objections.

    Diane Miller said she felt the plan was against religion and against God. Another opponent, Peter Doyle, said he felt it violated the rights of parents and puts students at risk of cancer because of hormones in the pill.

    A supporter, Richard Verrier, said it’s not enough to depend on parents to protect their children because there may be students who can’t discuss things with their parents.

    Parental permission required
    Condoms have been available since 2000 to King students who have parental permission to be treated at its student health center.

    About one-fourth of student health centers that serve at least one grade of adolescents 11 and older dispense some form of contraception, said Mohan, whose Washington-based organization represents more than 1,700 school-based centers nationwide.

    At King Middle School, birth control prescriptions will be given after a student undergoes a physical exam by a physician or nurse practitioner, said Lisa Belanger, who oversees Portland’s student health centers.

    Students treated at the centers must first get written parental permission, but under state law such treatment is confidential, and students decide for themselves whether to tell their parents about the services they receive.

    Five of the 134 students who visited King’s health center during the 2006-07 school year reported having sexual intercourse, said Amanda Rowe, lead nurse in Portland’s school health centers.

    A high school in Topeka, Kan., stopped providing free condoms to students Wednesday after district officials learned of the month-old program. The district has a policy against providing contraceptives.


    © 2007 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.
    URL: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21358971/
    So, what are your thoughts?

    If I'm reading this right, and correct me if you don't think I am a student needs parent consent to be seen by a physician or nurse at the student health center but what they receive once they have the consent is not relayed to the parent.

    I guess my thoughts are that condoms are one thing but a prescription drug that would affect my daughter's horomones is overstepping a boundary.

    Thoughts?
    Wife to NSG out of training, mom to 2, 10 & 8, and a beagle with wings.

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    Re: Maine Middle School to offer Birth Control

    This a tough one. That same child can go to her doctor and get the pill without her parent's consent so I don't really see the difference. As long as they're not shoving it down their throats, I don't see anything wrong with availability. And having to go behind their parent's back is a whole other issue. I would hope that I would have the kind of relationship with my children that they could come to me to discuss these matters. And even if I disagreed I would say my peace (I don't think you should have sex, it complicates things, pregnacy, STDs, ect) but in the end I rather my children be protected than just out there making even poorer decisions because I was unapproachable and/or they didn't have access to protection.

    Suzy, it does sound like they need parental consent to be treated at the center but if granted, treatment would be kept confidential.

    They are being seen by a physician or a NP, to me that's no different than going to the family doctor. I am sure the physical examination they must first recieve will also include discussion of the risks ect. It's not like people are just handing out condoms and pills like it's halloween or something.

    I started having sex in HS and I was ALWAYS ALWAYS protected. When I was 11 my uncle sat me and my cousin down after we finished reading the Magic Johnson book and gave us bananas and condoms, showed us how to use them, then told us that now we had no excuses. We of course had no interest in sex at that time or no where near following that time but I always appreciated that he did that for us. Ignorance is not bliss and I hope that my kids will come to me when they have questions or concerns but if for some reason they can't I hope they'll go to someone (a responsible adult) who is educated in these matters rather than get advice from their peers or just take the chance and just do it.

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    • #3
      Re: Maine Middle School to offer Birth Control

      I know people are going to get all up in arms and say that the schools are overstepping their boundaries and blah, blah, blah.

      Indeed they are. and I wish that option were available to a lot more schools. and I certainly wish that the women in my methadone clinic had access to free birth control, too. and that they'd had access in junior high, when quite a few of them got pregnant and dropped out in 8th and 9th grade.

      In an ideal world, parents would be responsible and this would be unnecessary intervention. We don't live in that world.

      Jenn

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      • #4
        Re: Maine Middle School to offer Birth Control

        Originally posted by DCJenn
        I know people are going to get all up in arms and say that the schools are overstepping their boundaries and blah, blah, blah.

        Indeed they are. and I wish that option were available to a lot more schools. and I certainly wish that the women in my methadone clinic had access to free birth control, too. and that they'd had access in junior high, when quite a few of them got pregnant and dropped out in 8th and 9th grade.

        In an ideal world, parents would be responsible and this would be unnecessary intervention. We don't live in that world.

        Jenn
        ITA. These young girls are going to be having sex whether or not birth control is available. I'd rather it be available. I do think however that condoms are a better choice simply because they can protect them from STD's whereas the pill will not. I'd hate for these young girls to think they are covering their bases by being on the pill and end up with a STD.
        Charlene~Married to an attending Ophtho Mudphud and Mom to 2 daughters

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        • #5
          Re: Maine Middle School to offer Birth Control

          An 11-13 year old girl can get this from her doctor without her parents' permission? Even though she's a minor? I obviously have a lot to learn.
          Wife to NSG out of training, mom to 2, 10 & 8, and a beagle with wings.

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          • #6
            Re: Maine Middle School to offer Birth Control

            I think that it is a good thing, on the whole. Of course I would hope my kid would come to me first, but as Jenn said, we don't all live in that world. I also had the same thought as MD/PhD Wife about condoms vs. the pill, but it sounds like everything is available. I would rather an 11, 12, or 13 year-old be on the pill than be getting an abortion.


            Sally
            Wife of an OB/Gyn, mom to three boys, middle school choir teacher.

            "I don't know when Dad will be home."

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            • #7
              Re: Maine Middle School to offer Birth Control

              Originally posted by Suzy Sunshine
              An 11-13 year old girl can get this from her doctor without her parents' permission? Even though she's a minor? I obviously have a lot to learn.
              That might depend on the state or something; I think it was when I turned 13 that my doctor told me they didn't have to tell my parents anything related to my health care. Pissed my mom off whey they wouldn't give her some test results of mine over the phone, as I recall.
              Sandy
              Wife of EM Attending, Web Programmer, mom to one older lady scaredy-cat and one sweet-but-dumb younger boy kitty

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              • #8
                Re: Maine Middle School to offer Birth Control

                Yes, I would prefer and hope that my daughter would come to me first and I do understand there aren't parents out there willing to have that talk so yes, maybe the schools should be involved at some level. I agree it is better then abortions.

                I'm sure I will have a different opinion or thought process when its my daughter.
                Wife to NSG out of training, mom to 2, 10 & 8, and a beagle with wings.

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                • #9
                  Re: Maine Middle School to offer Birth Control

                  I spent 16 weeks at an inner city clinic, usually on GYN/STD day, that should say enough.
                  Luanne
                  wife, mother, nurse practitioner

                  "You have not converted a man because you have silenced him." (John, Viscount Morely, On Compromise, 1874)

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                  • #10
                    Re: Maine Middle School to offer Birth Control

                    As the mom of a sixth grade boy, this totally freaks me out. And as the mom of a sixth grade boy, I think the pill would be a great option over condoms, because I can't imagine him having the dexterity to put on a condom correctly. The whole topic has me flustered.
                    Angie
                    Gyn-Onc fellowship survivor - 10 years out of the training years; reluctant suburbanite
                    Mom to DS (18) and DD (15) (and many many pets)

                    "Where are we going - and what am I doing in this handbasket?"

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                    • #11
                      Re: Maine Middle School to offer Birth Control

                      I used to teach middle school. I have a hard time believing this will make a practical difference. Kids that age don't believe it could ever happen to them--AIDS and STDs are something that happens to other people (like cancer or bad hair). Plus, the boys aren't worried about pregnancy because it's not their problem (and are usually so shocked that they are actually going to have sex that they don't want to interrupt their good luck), and the girls aren't assertive enough to force their (usually MUCH older) boyfriends to use a condom. Plus, the incidence between consensual sex at this age and alcohol consumption is so highly correlated that it seems safe to say that a lot of the kids aren't going to be using their best judgment, however minimal it might be in the first place.

                      I mean, come'on. How many of us here had "surprise" babies? Blessings, but unplanned. You had JUST finished your period, and your cycle is always SO regular, or you'd only missed TWO pills all month...and y'all were SO into it...and he REALLY didn't want to stop...and, hey, what were the chances? ... and we are GROWN-UPs married to DOCTORS.

                      ...and, no...DS was planned...

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                      • #12
                        Re: Maine Middle School to offer Birth Control

                        I think it's sad that eleven year olds have to make such big decisions. Even though they are available I think they will still be embarrassed to get the BC. I mean think of all those tv and movies where grown adults are embarrassed to ask for condoms at a store. At the same time I think the availability of bc puts more pressure on kids to have sex. I know seeing condoms given out in college made me feel like there is something wrong with me that I wasn't have tons of sex, I can imagine what young kids feel. This whole thing sucks and is another reason why we are going to have to live in a trailer park so we can afford to send our kids to Christian schools. No guarantees there, but I need freaking peace of mind, no matter how jaded.

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                        • #13
                          Re: Maine Middle School to offer Birth Control

                          Originally posted by Sheherezade
                          As the mom of a sixth grade boy, this totally freaks me out. And as the mom of a sixth grade boy, I think the pill would be a great option over condoms, because I can't imagine him having the dexterity to put on a condom correctly. The whole topic has me flustered.
                          See and as a mom to be of a girl I would rather have the condoms then the BC pills because I personally know what the BC pills can do to your horomones, your weight and your overall mental stability. I guess that would be part of the question as a parent, are they going to have more then one BC to make sure these girls get on the right one or are they just going to have one and everyone gets the same one because everyone does not react to them the same.
                          Wife to NSG out of training, mom to 2, 10 & 8, and a beagle with wings.

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                          • #14
                            Re: Maine Middle School to offer Birth Control

                            Here is my conservative *gasp* stance on this.

                            Hell NO. I was up in arms because the middle school taught my 5th grader how to use a tampon last year.

                            My children are MY responsibility. Unless the govt. is planning on stepping up and accepting full legal and financial responsibility for any STD's aquired when my child uses the pill and not a condom AND for any rare side-effects of the pill and is prepared to pay for future mental health counseling because instead of not informing me that my daughter was planning on having sex at such an early age and is now struggling through that choice emotionally, then the govt. needs to stay the hell out of such personal choices OR absolve me of all responsibility when it comes to raising my child...

                            Kris

                            ETA: I'm sorry that there are bad parents out there that won't teach their children about birth control or proper tampon use But the fact that they fail does not mean that my rights as a parent should be infringed upon. Or. Do I have rights as a parent....maybe I'm just stuck with the sucky responsibility of sending them to college and making sure that they show up each day at school....
                            ~Mom of 5, married to an ID doc
                            ~A Rolling Stone Gathers No Moss

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                            • #15
                              Re: Maine Middle School to offer Birth Control

                              Well stated Kris.

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