ITA with ST. N of 2 or should it be 4? here. DH and I dated for 4 yrs before having sex...the day after we got married. We were exhausted that first night.
I am in no way saying that this choice is for everyone and will stand up and fight for anyone to make their own choices about their sexuality/sex. However, I cringe at the blanket statements that what DH and I chose is somewhat the outlier or abnormal. It is MY choice too. And no, it was never about not having all the facts or thinking sex was wrong or dirty. Hell, it is because we knew so much about our bodies/sex that we made the choice to abstain until marriage.
It is a choice. Just like I will beat down anyone that attempts to shame someone that chooses to have sex before marriage, I will do the same for those that choose to wait.
I am in no way saying that this choice is for everyone and will stand up and fight for anyone to make their own choices about their sexuality/sex. However, I cringe at the blanket statements that what DH and I chose is somewhat the outlier or abnormal. It is MY choice too. And no, it was never about not having all the facts or thinking sex was wrong or dirty. Hell, it is because we knew so much about our bodies/sex that we made the choice to abstain until marriage.
It is a choice. Just like I will beat down anyone that attempts to shame someone that chooses to have sex before marriage, I will do the same for those that choose to wait.
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